Success Is Not Beating Others, But Changing Ourselves.

Instead of beating others, they change themselves.

1 someone asked the farmer, "has the wheat been planted?" farmer: "no, I am afraid it will not rain."

The man then asked, "did you grow cotton?" farmer: "no, I'm worried that the worm ate cotton."

The man then asked, "what did you grow?" farmer: "nothing is planted. I want to ensure safety."

A person who does not want to pay is unwilling to take up.

It is natural for him to accomplish nothing.

2 when the master saw a scorpion falling into the water, he was determined to save it.

Who knows, scorpion stung his fingers.

Zen master has no fear, once again, he knows that he has been stung by scorpions again.

There was a man who said, "why do you want to save it?" Zen master answered: "sting is the nature of scorpions, and goodness is my nature. How can I give up my nature because of its nature?"

[realize] our mistake lies in the fact that the outside world has changed itself too much.

3 the little monk is responsible for cleaning the fallen leaves in the monastery. It takes a long time to sweep away the leaves every day.

Someone said to him, "shake the tree hard before you sweep it, shake down all the fallen leaves, and you will not have to clean it tomorrow."

The little monk thought he was right, and he did it cheerfully. But on the second day, the yard was as full of leaves as ever.

No matter how hard you try today, the leaves will float down tomorrow.

[understand] live in the present.

4 it costs 9000 yuan to look at a computer.

His monthly income is only 2000. wives. He said to him, "you are crazy, you buy, you get divorced."

He asked me what to do.

I said, you can't match that computer.

Even the things you like don't have the courage to fight for what you can do in the future. He bought a bite.

In order to repay debts, he began to keep on.

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Finally, I paid off all the rest in a month.

His wife did not leave him because of his madness.

His wife brought him into the car market and said, "husband, let's borrow this BMW.

He was scared to death at first.

I think my wife is crazy.

1 years later, he paid off BMW's loan.

You don't even have the courage to pursue what you like and people. You are doomed to be a loser.

5 three people go out, with umbrellas and crutches and empty hands.

When I came back, I was wet through my umbrella and hurt myself with crutches. Third good ones.

Originally, when the rain came, the umbrella boldly walked, but was drenched; walking along the dirt road, walking crashly on crutches, often falling down; nothing at all, when the heavy rain came to hide away, when the road was bad, careful walking, but nothing.

Many times, we are not defeated in the defect, but in the advantage.

6 a small town, a businessman opened a gas station, business is particularly good, second came, opened a restaurant, third opened a supermarket, this piece of bustling soon.

In another town, a businessman opened a gas station, and the business was very good. The second came, opened second gas stations, and third, fourth vicious competition.

To take the road of others will surely block your own way.

7 a crow met dove on his way home.

Dove asked, "where are you flying?" the crow said, "actually, I don't want to go, but everyone disagrees with me, so I want to leave.

Dove told the crow: don't waste it! If you don't change your voice, you won't be welcome anywhere.

If you want everything, you can become better. Start with changing yourself.

8 a family has three sons. They live in endless quarrels between their parents, and their mothers are often black and blue.

The boss thought, "mom is so pathetic! I will treat my wife better."

The second thought: marriage is too boring. I will never marry when I grow up!